Once you’ve reached the milestone of 35 years of life, what’s important to you will change. Let’s talk about the importance of routines in enhancing your self-confidence and self-growth and how you can implement changes that will help you achieve your best life.
The Dance of Spontaneity and Structure
While spontaneity adds a delightful zest to life, embracing a structured routine can be a transformative tool for women in their mid-30s and beyond.
As you glide into this dynamic phase of life, balancing spontaneity with a consistent routine isn’t just beneficial – it’s essential for your overall well-being. Structure can help keep you on track and keep you productive, while spontaneity will help keep you open to new experiences and enhance your creativity.
The Power of Routine in Nurturing Well-being
Restorative Sleep: Regular sleep patterns are crucial for maintaining energy and focus. Without a routine, the elusive deep sleep needed for rejuvenation becomes harder to attain. By setting and maintaining consistent sleep habits, you honor your body’s natural rhythm, leading to more restful nights and vibrant mornings.
Mindful Technology Use: In our digital age, letting screens dominate our evenings is tempting. However, reducing electronic device usage before bedtime can significantly improve your sleep quality. This practice encourages a peaceful mind, allowing you to wake up refreshed and ready to embrace the day’s adventures.
Nourishing Diet: A structured approach to eating ensures that you nourish your body and support your digestive health. Regular meal times prevent erratic eating patterns, which can lead to weight fluctuations and digestive discomfort.
Consistent Exercise: Exercise, often a neglected aspect of routine, is a cornerstone of stress management and physical health. Including gentle, consistent activities like walking can have profound effects on our mental and physical well-being.
Implementing Life-Enhancing Routines
Changing your existing habits can feel unsettling – our habits have been created by repeating them over and over again. Take advantage of the three steps below to help ease your way into more productive and life-enhancing routines.
Start Small: Introduce small, manageable changes to your daily routine. This could be as simple as setting a fixed bedtime or incorporating a 10-minute walk after dinner. Give yourself 21 – 28 days to strengthen the commitment to change and start to feel the benefits and results.
Customize Your Routine: Your routine should reflect your unique lifestyle and needs. Whether it’s a morning meditation, an afternoon stroll, or a nightly reading ritual, find what nourishes your soul. A popular activity may not work for you, and if you don’t enjoy it, or it doesn’t fit into your life, you’ll find it harder to be consistent.
Embrace Flexibility: While routines are beneficial, they also should allow room for spontaneity. Life is about balance, and occasional deviations from the routine can be refreshing and invigorating. Don’t get so “locked in” that you can’t move and bend with the times. Rigidity can cause you to snap when the winds of change blow through.
Journaling Prompts to Embrace Structure and Spontaneity
Use one or more of these prompts to start or deepen your personal journaling practice. Give yourself time to think about what the prompt brings up for you and explore your feelings on paper. If you need a journal, click HERE to see our available journals.
