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“Intention Is More Than Wishful Thinking. It’s Willful Direction” – Jennifer Williamson

Setting intentions is a powerful tool for manifesting the life you want and achieving your goals.

But what does it really mean to set an intention? Does it just involve wishing for something, crossing your fingers, and hoping for the best? Not exactly…

Let’s examine how setting an intention is more than wishful thinking—it’s willful direction that can empower you to create real change in your life.

What Happens When You Set an Intention

Setting an intention means that you are actively choosing to direct energy toward a specific goal or outcome.

You are committing yourself to taking productive action towards something by being present in the moment, being aware of what you want, and holding that vision in your mind. It involves developing clarity about where you are headed and why, as well as focusing on the steps needed to get there.

It blocks out the outside noise when you are traveling on your journey of life. You are able to see clearly what you want and formulate a roadmap to achieving your goals and desires. By taking small, positive, intentional steps every day, you shift from feeling stuck to moving forward with purpose. Instead of floating through life hoping for change, you become an active participant in shaping your future.

Why Wishful Thinking Kills Dreams

Believing something is possible is an important step in achieving any goal, but simply wishing for a better outcome will not get you where you want to go.

A dangerous side effect of wishful thinking is that it weakens a person’s sense of urgency and commitment as they delay taking action toward achieving their goals.

This lack of urgency can lead to procrastination and self-doubt. When people rely solely on hoping and dreaming without taking consistent steps, they lose momentum and motivation. Over time, this passive approach can cause frustration, disappointment, and even a loss of confidence in one’s ability to make meaningful progress.

Wishes will never replace honest effort, which involves analyzing a situation, making plans, and then executing those plans. Dreams only come alive through purposeful thought and action that brings what was once only a desire within reach. Successful individuals recognize that action is the bridge between intention and achievement, and they commit themselves to moving forward even when obstacles arise.

How to Set Your Intention

The first step in setting an intention is identifying what it is that you truly want out of life.

This could be anything from achieving a particular goal or reaching a certain milestone to creating more joy, developing new skills, or improving relationships. Once you have identified what it is that you want, take some time to visualize this outcome and how it will make you feel when achieved. This will help keep your focus on what matters most.

Steps to Setting Powerful Intentions:

  1. Clarify Your Vision – Ask yourself what you truly want and why it matters.
  2. Phrase It Positively – Frame your intention as a statement of achievement (e.g., “I am confident and capable” instead of “I don’t want to feel insecure”).
  3. Write It Down – Putting your intention on paper (a journal is great for this) solidifies your commitment.
  4. Visualize Success – Take time to imagine yourself already living your intention.
  5. Take Small, Positive Actions Daily – Align your habits and choices with your intention.
  6. Stay Flexible and Open-Minded – Adapt as needed, but keep moving forward.

The second step toward manifesting your intention, in reality, is to break your goal down into smaller steps and complete them. By taking action towards your goals, no matter how small, each day brings you closer to your desired outcome—even if you don’t always see immediate results from your efforts. The consistent effort over time will have significant results in the long run!

The Role of Mindset in Manifesting Intentions

Mindset plays a crucial role in setting and achieving intentions.

When you approach life with an open, growth-oriented mindset, you are more likely to stay committed to your intentions even when faced with challenges. Here’s how you can strengthen your mindset:

  • Practice Gratitude – Appreciating what you have now helps reinforce your belief in what’s possible.
  • Reframe Negative Thoughts – Replace self-doubt with affirmations that reinforce your intention.
  • Trust the Process – Understand that progress is gradual and requires patience.
  • Surround Yourself with Positivity – Engage with people and environments that support your goals.

Why Setting Intentions Leads to Lasting Change

When we set strong, clear intentions, we program our minds to seek out opportunities that align with our vision.

Unlike wishful thinking, which keeps us passive, setting intentions encourages deliberate action and continuous growth.

By integrating intention-setting into your daily routine, you create a life guided by clarity and purpose instead of by chance. Whether you aim to build healthier habits, advance in your career, or strengthen relationships, setting intentions allows you to stay focused and aligned with what truly matters.

Final Thoughts

Setting intentions can be incredibly powerful; not only do they give us clarity about where we’re going and why, but they also motivate us to take action and stay focused on our end goal despite any obstacles we may face along the way.

So, remember—setting intentions isn’t wishful thinking; it’s willful direction with purposeful actions! With focus and consistency, great things can happen when you choose your own path with intentionality at its core!

 

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About the Author Dianne Daniels

Born and raised in Detroit, Michigan, and now residing in Norwich, Connecticut, Rev. Dianne M. Daniels is passionate about empowering women 35+ to discover their dynamic, inspiring, vibrant, and authentic selves and embrace their unique journeys. Through journaling, affirmations, and spiritual exploration, Dianne helps individuals deepen their self-knowledge, amplify confidence, and transform their lives with intentional purpose.

An ordained Unitarian Universalist Minister with a Master of Divinity from Starr King School for the Ministry, Dianne blends her ministry with her love for personal growth and creative expression. She believes in the transformative power of connection, interdependence, and spirituality to inspire positive change.

Dianne is an avid reader and a lover of historic homes (she renovated an 1850s Greek Revival home with her family). She has been journaling since the age of 9. She invites others to build lives of meaning, joy, and intentional action through her work.

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